Sapiosexual - a person who is sexually attracted to intelligence in others. Though beauty is demanding, intelligence is outstanding. I get high on real conversations, powerful men, steamy fantasies and great music. Can you turn me on? I love a man with great sense of humor and with a sparkling mind. He has to make me laugh. A strong, independent and confident man - that is so attractive! Being sexy is about suggestion; it's about the tease. The dentist; Humidity; “Bad” coffee; Mornings and getting up early; Traffic.